So apparently I’m super funny online. I’m pretty, witty, charming. And then I meet a guy in person (recently they’ve all known about the herp, so that isn’t the issue).
They say they want to see me again…and then they disappear.
One told me he was moving away, but then just emailed my herp account (I met him through my non-herp OK Stupid profile).
One just was too weird for words. I’m not really mourning that at all.
One gave me a hug, a kiss on the cheek, and told me he wanted to see me again. Sent him a thanks text, he sent one back, haven’t heard from him since.
I’m curious what exactly is wrong with me.
I know- it’s hard. I have gotten to the point where I disclose on the first date (second at most) that way I’m not emotionally involved with them too much.
You could try the dating websites for people with the condition, but it’s not always that easy.
Disclosing gets easier. There are a number of ways to weird out the people that can’t hack it, but sadly it’s not perfect. Know that you’re doing the right thing.
Occasionally this guy
Possibly this guy
Or a guy who makes you want to do this:
As much as I want the marriage and baby thing, I don’t want to be with someone who isn’t right for me.
And so I must keep looking.
Your non-friends will act like this:
To which you’ll respond:
They might be more subtle like this:
So you just move on and hang out with your real friends who love you no matter what
Aw, that’s sweet! I’ve missed you too!
I’ve come to realize that laughter truly is the best medicine. Yes, some of the .gifs are stupid, but I figured I might as well express myself another way.
You prepare like this:
You worry he’s going to react like this
or this
But maybe you’ll get this
